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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 19.06.2025 10:02

How does one succeed in life?

Does not procrastinate.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Ask yourself:

Why do I want to be caught sucking dick by my wife?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

What is the best way to get over your ex?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Can someone write me a sex story?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

What does it mean when a guy says he's afraid of falling for someone else after going through heartbreaks?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Why do I feel worthless most of the time?

That's it for today.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Why do I want to give up on men?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

How can I stop drinking?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Hangs out with loser friends.

How should you handle a situation where your friend tells you they like someone who also likes you? Should you tell them or continue as normal?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Do not set goals—set systems.

What are women's true thoughts and feelings on bestiality?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

What I need from you?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Why does it seem that Quora's "moderators" base their moderations on personal beliefs and views by deleting answers that are only violating their personal feelings?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Why do flat-earthers claim the 1967 photo of Earth from space was made with CGI, even though CGI didn't exist back then?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Why does it itch on my vulva, uterus, and sides of my vagina, but it doesn't itch inside the vagina?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Making more friends is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

Why is there so much evil in the world?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.